Rationalization: A multi-use tool

Me and this word have a very weird fucked up history. Rationalization by definition means; the action of attempting to explain or justify behavior or an attitude with logical reasons, even if these are not appropriate. I rationalized my ex husbands actions FOR YEARS. To be more accurate, I justified it. I defended it. I […]

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I’ve been watching this race on TV for 3 straight years now and its time to change the fucking channel.

OK! So, here are a few things that have happened to me and a few things I have learned on my journey to recovery from an abusive relationship and trauma. I used my anger and resentment for my abuser as fuel to make my own life better. This isn’t going to apply for everyone, but […]

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Be the arrow 

May your arrow be steadfast. Your aim must not falter. Set your eyes on your target firmly, furiously, and with out distraction. Only in the face of adversity do we discover our strength.  -Luna Martel 2017

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